Comments on: Our Last Hospital Meeting Re Zak http://lifecanbeashit.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/our-last-hospital-meeting-re-zak/ Love, IVF, marriage, death - Sometimes you get a big kick in the bum - with a steelcap boot! Sat, 02 Jan 2010 23:24:36 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: BeautifulCurve http://lifecanbeashit.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/our-last-hospital-meeting-re-zak/#comment-585 BeautifulCurve Sat, 19 Jan 2008 23:13:42 +0000 http://lifecanbeashit.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/our-last-hospital-meeting-re-zak/#comment-585 Months, later and you are still a warrior. I know how hard it is to relive all this, but I know a part of you is better for knowing the truth and for seeing that true changes are coming out of this. God knows how many others in the future these new changes will help. You and your husband must be so mentally drained from having to relive all this, but I hope it can provide some closure. Also, draw strength from knowing that this aspect of your experience with Zachary is now over. I can relate, we sat down with so many doctors, nurses, specialists and finally geneticists (spelling). Only to hear over and over again why my baby did not have a chance in hell to make it. But the end finally came and I knew that my last visit, was my LAST visit indeed in reference to her death. Knowing all I could know ended that aspect of our suffering (the whys and hows), now I could truly mourn my baby. I wish you peace in your findings and happiness in your memories of your precious son. Every time i see his picture it just kills me-so precious. Months, later and you are still a warrior. I know how hard it is to relive all this, but I know a part of you is better for knowing the truth and for seeing that true changes are coming out of this. God knows how many others in the future these new changes will help. You and your husband must be so mentally drained from having to relive all this, but I hope it can provide some closure. Also, draw strength from knowing that this aspect of your experience with Zachary is now over.

I can relate, we sat down with so many doctors, nurses, specialists and finally geneticists (spelling). Only to hear over and over again why my baby did not have a chance in hell to make it. But the end finally came and I knew that my last visit, was my LAST visit indeed in reference to her death. Knowing all I could know ended that aspect of our suffering (the whys and hows), now I could truly mourn my baby.

I wish you peace in your findings and happiness in your memories of your precious son. Every time i see his picture it just kills me-so precious.

]]> By: Coggy http://lifecanbeashit.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/our-last-hospital-meeting-re-zak/#comment-584 Coggy Sat, 19 Jan 2008 21:54:35 +0000 http://lifecanbeashit.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/our-last-hospital-meeting-re-zak/#comment-584 That must have been such a tough day Brenda. I guess on the positive side at least the hospital had done something proactive to remedy what sounds like a clear lack of protocols. I'm just so sorry that wasn't in place for Zak. That must have been such a tough day Brenda. I guess on the positive side at least the hospital had done something proactive to remedy what sounds like a clear lack of protocols. I’m just so sorry that wasn’t in place for Zak.

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